By chance

Meaning of By Chance (http://www.thefreedictionary.com/by+chance)

a.       The unknown and unpredictable element in happenings that seems to have no assignable cause.

b.      A favorable set of circumstances; an opportunity.

c.       To find or meet accidentally; happen upon.

d.      Without plan; accidentally.

Even after you have read the meaning of this word, it’s highly ambiguous. As for things to happen, you have to do some efforts. You can’t sit at home and expect amazing things to happen in your life. You have to go out, try random/different things, encourage yourself for new experiences and you should have that young spirit in your heart for it to happen. When you think and do these things, life gives you many beautiful things, you meet great people and have experiences BY CHANCE.

Even if you get something bad out of it, it will help you some day for sure.I understood the meaning of this word from my group of buddies in college. They taught me how to live unpredictably and I will always be glad that I did that. Like a Phoenix, we have to burn our patterned lives many times for a new beginning.

Points a, b, c and d happens in everybody’s life but only few of us understand the meaning of it and are ready to pursue it. We have our own fears, inhibitions for the new beginnings as they are always difficult/painful/unpredictable. For me the best way to explore, is by meeting different people, from different work backgrounds, cultures etc .  So that I could know what beautiful experiences I am missing in my life.

Everybody has its own way of thinking but I can only share the experiences and views I have.

 I will love to hear your stories/experiences/views. You can write to me also ravishsehgal1985@gmail.com.

Have a happy and a wonderful day.

Quito, World first heritage City

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Friday's Thought :

Today is Friday and its not a dry day. 

Alarms in Mobile

Some old alarms in my mobile will always keep ringing so that I never forget, what I had once forgotten.

¿ A fall from the Dreamland ?

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Feel like the dream journey is over.

Sometimes we forget that everything has an ending.
Whatever that happens in our life,  gives us some good and some bad moments .
One thing for sure, that we get are the M.E.M.O.R.I.E.S of the lifetime.

Some people say whatever happens, happens for good.

The Crazy Pollo 

What is life ? For everybody the meaning of this is different. There are many philosophies on this and I am not here to write one more.

For Indians its very complicated, difficult and most of the people just pass it by following rules not by living it. Some days back , met a doctor who has travelled to India for practice. She says that life for Indians is a like a sin that needs to passed not lived happily. There are so many rules, regulations and restrictions to live it that it destroyes the meaning of it.

Life in other countries is very different as people can decide their path of life as they want or the way it makes them happy. For them happiness in life is more important. They study what they like, travel where they want, they learn from their experiences. Also sometimes they take breaks in their studies to fulfill their dreams. Life is also easy as basic necessities of life are taken as granted and need not be chased.

For us it’s like pattern and it has to be done in that order :

•  School
• College with no break in studies and subjects that are popular.
• Naukri   
•  Marriage  etc etc etc.  

      If you do delay or change the process of  any one of them, then you will always face difficulties and questions.

     Now a days life is so fragile that anything can happen any time, it can lead you to a confusion that for what we are running its worthwhile or not.

                                 For me life is like a Crazy Pollo .